Hey love š
Your body is not separate from your spirit.
Pleasure is not separate from presence.
Sexual energy is not something to be hidden. Itās something to be honored.
⨠Tantra isn't just about sex. Itās about being in relationship with energy.
Your energy. Someone elseās. The divineās.
Thereās classical tantra rooted in Hindu and Buddhist traditions, often involving breath, mantras, rituals, and devotional practice. Thereās also Taoist sexual alchemy.
⨠Magick is when you consciously work with sexual energy to shape your realityācasting spells, praying with your body, aligning with intention.
It's not for spectacle. It's for transformation.
And hereās the thing, babe: you donāt need a partner, a guru, or a yoni-egg subscription to access this.
You just need presence.
You just need curiosity.
You just need breath and choice and willingness to come home to yourself.
The real tantra isnāt performative. Itās not aesthetic. It doesnāt need a ring light or a perfect body. Itās intimate. Internal. Sometimes messy. Often mysterious. Always sacred.
So hereās what Iām sitting with:
š What happens when I slow down?
š What does sacred feel like in my bodyā
not what Iāve been told, but what I know?
š What if I stopped performing pleasure and started communing with it?
Your pleasure is wise.
Your body is holy.
Your energy is enough.
Always has been.
Journal Prompt:
Where have I been waiting for someone else to give me permission to be powerful in my pleasure?
Affirmation:
I donāt perform my sensualityāI embody it.
Letās get into some spellsā¦š¹
Follow Me, Babe:
A West Coast Love Draw Ritual
Forget the old-school oil blendsāhereās a sunset-lit spell for attraction, devotion, and radiant confidence.
What youāll need:
A pinch of dried catnip or basil (for allure)
A little cinnamon (for passion)
Rose petals or lavender (for love & softness)
A rose quartz crystal (for heart chakra sweetness)
A red candle (or pink, if thatās more your vibe)
A spritz of your favorite natural perfume (you = the oil now)
Ritual:
Set the vibeāmusic, incense, sunlight streaming in.
Mix your herbs in a small bowl. Whisper: āDraw in love that honors, sees, and holds me.ā
Light your candle. Sprinkle the herbs in a circle or heart shape.
Hold the quartz over your heart. Say:
āI am the sun on your skin, the song you canāt forget.
[His/Their name], follow the path to my joy.ā
Dab your perfume at your neck, wrists, and heart.
Strut through the herb circle or blow a kiss into the flame.
You just became the spell.
Compelling Spell for Truth & Trust š®
This oneās for those moments you need clarity, not controlājust a little sacred nudge.
Youāll need:
A purple candle
Mint tea or dried mint leaves (clarity & truth)
A white feather (lightness, honesty)
A journal page with your intention written in gold ink (optional flair)
Ritual:
Brew mint tea and sip slowly, grounding into your breath.
Light the candle and place the feather beside it.
Read your intention aloud:
āLet truth rise like morning light.
May clarity be my companion, and trust our shared path.ā
Let the candle burn a while, then safely snuff it out.
Tuck the feather into your journal or somewhere sacred as a reminder of clear communication.
Let Go & Lead š§æ
This is about reclaiming your leadership and soft power.
Youāll need:
A handful of salt (cleansing + grounding)
A few drops of lemon juice (energy mover)
Fresh rosemary or sage (clarity, protection)
A bowl of warm water
Ritual bath or foot soak:
Mix the ingredients in warm water.
Soak your feet (or bathe with it) while breathing into your pelvis.
Repeat:
āI release the need to prove, push, or persuade.
I lead with rooted grace.
Whatās mine returns with ease.ā
Let the water dry naturally if you can.
Walk forward knowing your presence is the spell.
š New Moon Bonus:
Charm Pouch for Self-Love & Sovereignty
Fill a small fabric pouch with:
A bay leaf (wish fulfillment)
A pinch of cinnamon (radiance)
A shell or piece of sea glass (emotional healing)
A piece of your own hair (connection to self)
Carry it when you need a boost of āI run thisā energy.
Different, right?
xoxo,
Groovy Girl š